How to Take Control of Your Clutter
When it comes to organizing, getting rid of “clutter” is both one of the most essential and the hardest parts. I hear from so many of you who struggle with deciding what to keep, what to toss, and coming up with the motivation to get it all done! I hear you. I’ve been there. It can be hard, and it definitely takes some practice, but you can do it. I think the first step is to recognize that we usually find it difficult not so much because of the physical work involved but because of the mental strain involved with making so many decisions.
First, let’s list why you should declutter:
- Once you get rid of something, you never ever have to touch it, clean it, dust it, move it, look at it, or organize it again.
- It’s completely free!
- Any organizing project will be much easier once you are rid of the things you don’t need, use, or love.
- You can often bless others with the things you don’t use anymore.
- It is so mentally freeing.
- You can find the things you do need, use, and love so much easier with all the clutter out of the way.
Therefore, I think getting rid of the things you don’t need should be the starting point for any organizing project. When considering whether to toss or keep any item, you should consider these questions:
- Do I use it regularly?
- Do I love it?
- Do I have a specific planned use for it?
- What would be the worst case scenario if I got rid of it?
- Do I have the space to store it?
- Sentimental Clutter: These are things we are tempted to hang onto because someone special gave them to us, because they remind of something special, or just because we feel like we should. I’m not opposed to some sentiment, but if we hang onto everything, it loses it’s value. If someone gave you something that you don’t need, it won’t do them one bit of good for you to keep storing it. Better to appreciate the thought behind the gift, and pass it on to someone who will use it. For items that trigger memories, consider keeping and displaying just a few items, then photographing the rest. A photo takes up less space, but lets you keep the memory.
- Aspirational Clutter: These are things we wish we used on a regular basis, but we don’t. This would be things like scrapbooking materials for the scrapbooks you plan to create “someday” or exercise equipment that you haven’t touched. These are emotionally difficult to part with, because we have to face the fact that we aren’t going to complete those scrapbooks or that we don’t exercise regularly. However, facing these things can be incredibly freeing! I recently got rid of all my rubber stamping supplies. I used to enjoy making cards. I wish I had time to regularly make cards, but I don’t. All my free time and creative energy is spent on the blog and Etsy shop, so I needed to part with some other hobby items. I honestly just felt free after I got rid of those things. I no longer had to feel guilty for not using those items, and I’m sure someone else can enjoy them.
- Expensive Clutter: It’s hard to get rid of things that cost us a lot of money. However, even if something was expensive, but we’re not using it, then getting rid of it is simply admitting the truth. It was already a bad purchase. Getting rid of it won’t change that.
- I Might Use This Someday Clutter: There are many items we have that we might possibly use someday. Don’t keep those things!! Yes, there could be a situation in 5 years where I would need the 12 three ring binders from my college days, but it’s not worth the cost of storing them all those years. If I really need them, I’ll just purchase new ones. Ninety percent of the time, you will never actually use those things. It’s worth the small cost for the ten percent of things you would have been able to use. Also, if you keep everything you might use someday, you may not be able to find what you need when you need it and be forced to repurchase it anyway.
What type of clutter is the biggest challenge for you? Did I miss any categories that are challenging?
Hope Says
I love the printable! Thanks 🙂
LauraJane Says
Post authorSo glad you like it!
Melissa Says
This is the first time I’ve seen Aspirational Clutter referred to and it has just identified my biggest clutter area!
Layla Says
This post came right on time.mi have been meaning to declutter for months but kept putting it off. Well the weekend has come to get it done due to a hot water heater issue. You are right it felt very freeing to get rid of stuf that was not being used and donate unused wedding gifts to Goodwill. We organized the remaining items on shelving units and now know where everything is!!
Sofia Says
oh.. seriously to get rid of things is so hard… but only before to do the first step 😀
Jane payson Says
Never thought about taking pictures of “stuff “.
It’s the same as putting our thoughts on paper to clear our heads
Great idea,will begin soon, thanks,
LauraJane Says
Post authorI love taking photos to help me remember things without having to keep the actual item.
Jaimee Says
Aspirational clutter! That’s what it is! I often stumble over this type of clutter (sometimes literally) and I have so much guilt over it. Sometimes I can’t even remember what I obtained it for in the first place! I am grateful to learn that I’m not the only person who has this problem. I feel freed somewhat already, just knowing that I can let that go and create an organized space to enjoy the things I actually do.
LauraJane Says
Post authorI know, the guilt over the aspirational clutter can be huge! You’re definitely not alone.
Patrice Baker Says
Hi. I may have missed this, but i didn’t see info about ‘advanced’ clothing clutter. I have tried the regular lmethods. I have put my hangers backwards in hopes of then getting rid of anything i haven’t worn in a certain time period. I’ve boxed things up, and given away things that i don’t love. I think I read this here, when deciding wether to get rid of an item, hold it up and decide based on “If this was an article of clothing for sale in a store, would i buy it right now?” BUt, my problem iwth clothing clutter is that whenever i get rid of clothes, i suddenly seem to have nothing to wear (not ture) and go buy a bunch more. So, the problem isn’t the actual clutter, its the aquiring of more to add to the clutter ….. I don’t overspend or buy needlessly iin any other part of my life, just clothes. THAT is the habit that I must break, or the clutter cleanup will never ever end. Patrice
LauraJane Says
Post authorI think we all have areas that are more of a struggle than others. I think you’ve taken a great first step in figuring out what the root of the problem is. Perhaps a limit of how many new clothes you can purchase would be helpful?